Monday, April 13, 2009

Preparing for Sex, Ensuring Orgasm and Getting Wife Pregnant

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Medical Care:
Anong Paraan parang mabuntis agad ang asawa?

Question: Jake, (South Korea) April 10, 2009


Gud day po, doc ask ko lng sana sa anong paraan po madaling mabuntis ang asawa ko? Kc pauwi na ako nxt month at gusto ko mabuntis ang asawa ko bago ako babalik, at paano gagawin ang lalaki? On the other hand, ask ko lng po sana kc may problema ako sa sex naming mag asawa, ganito po yun doc, sa tuwing magsex kami lagi siyang nabibitin at kc lagi akong mauuna sa kanya nasa kalagitnaan pa sya at ako tapos na, kaya lagi syang magagalit sa akin. Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin para magkasabay kami at hindi na sya mabibitin? Advice lng po sana doc,,tnx po. GODBLESS....

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Answer


Dear Jake,

There are several steps that you can take to maximize your chances of pregnancy, pero dapat makasigurado kayong dalawa na healthy kayo. Magpa check up na kayo ngayon para ready na kayo pag-uwi mo in one month's time. Ang mga sumusunod ay mga "pointers" na maaari ninyong sundin:

1. Eat healthy foods and get adequate amounts of zinc (from lean meat, eggs, seafood, whole grains), calcium (from milk and green leafy vegetables), and vitamin D (from sunlight).

2. Avoid alcohol and nicotine, and limit the intake of caffeine.

3. Identify your fertile period. You can use the "Ovulation calculator", available online, or commercially available ovulation kits. Sexual intercourse should occur everyday or every other day during the fertile period. Some studies show that the missionary position is still most likely to lead to pregnancy, and ensuring your wife's orgasm further increases the chances, since the contractions may carry sperm further into the cervix. Avoid using lubricants or jellies, as these may damage or kill sperm.

4. Prenatal vitamins may be recommended by your wife's obstetrician even before conception. Folic acid supplements once daily may be helpful.

5. Relax, enjoy the sex with your Mrs. and don't stress yourselves out. Pregnancy may not happen immediately, and the stress builds up, especially if you set a deadline for yourselves.

As for the second part of your question. Yung lagi kang nauuna sa Mrs. mo, ito ba ay dahil sa hindi mo nasu sustain ang iyong erection? Kung wala ka namang problemang magsustain ng erection mo, try to take Zoloft , 50 mg once a day at bedtime for 1 week and see how that works.

Thank you for your question,
Priscilla Sanchez, M.D.
Medical Coordinator
OFWParaSaPamilya.com


Editor's Note: Jake, you may want to lengthen the foreplay before intercourse. A woman can climax several times, while a man only once or twice. So, enjoy being with your wife again, and exploring each other. Give her all the time and attention and bring her to her full enjoyment at least once, before you enter and help her and yourself to climax again together. Good luck!
Have an enjoyable home leave next month!

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12 comments:

Unknown said...
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Unknown said...

Good Day po, may tanong lang po ako. pag maaga bang nagmamasturbate(jajakol) ang lalake hirap na siyang mag ka-anak or baog na siya.

Unknown said...

good day po, may tanong lang po ako meron po akong cyst sa ovary ko sabi po ng ob-gyne ko hnd pa naman daw po delikado yun kase daw po maliit pa naman po hnd nya po ako binigyan ng iabng gamot kundi po yung pills lang po tapos po nun irregular po ang period ko then sabi po ng og-gyne ko pinagtake nya po kao ng pills 3 months po ako nagtake po ng pills matagl din po kase kame nagcontrol ng asawa ko mga 4 years po and now po isang taon napo kaming hnd nagcontrol pero hrap pa rin po akong mabuntis. salamt po sana po mabigyn nyo po ako ng kasagutan salmt.

Unknown said...
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Unknown said...

haLA PAREHO TAU ATE CILYN GANYAN DIN AKO

tomeka said...

gud noon po magtatanong lng po ako gus2ng gus2 na po naming magkaanak po mayron kasi siyang UTI pinahilot q na po sya ang sabi mababa raw ng knyang matris kaya hinilot po mag-iisang buwan na po at binilhan q po sya ng Pregnancy Test po pro ang result po ay negative over a month na po pagkatapos syang hilotin pd ba yung dahilan na di sya mabuntis dahil sa UTI nya po ba?

Unknown said...

Bakit po di ako agad mabuntis ilng months npo kmi ngttry pero wla pa din . Tps ung mens q d lging sapol sa isang date minsn delay minsN nauuna . Ano po kya problema don . Ts nung gmwa kmi ngbuhat lng aq timba ngkroon nko bgla ng mdmi pero last month mahina bt gnun ts till now ngyun month wla pko

lhadyjheandelacruz said...

Bakit po ganun may mga babaeng mahirap mabuntis kahit gustong gusto na.wala po bang mabilis na paraan para mabuntis dapat ba palaging may punta ng ob at mag paalaga.or uminum ng gamot para mabuntis?ang mga binibigay nman po kasi ng ob gyne di naman po talaga nag papabuntis tulad ng sabi ng obgyne sakin iinumin kodaw ang folic asid sa 3months at mabubuntis ako until now wala padin naman.tas may papainum ulit sakin at mag papaultra sound padaw dahil nag kaUTI ako.gusto kodin mabuntis 5 years na kmi ng asawa ko til now di padin ako nabubuntis.anu po ang dapat kong gawin sana po matulungan u ako gusto kona po talaga mabuntis.

kemedora said...
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Unknown said...

Goodmorning po ask q lng po sna qng my ibg sabhin b ung kulay ng sperm ng lalaki ... kse po sakn mdyo mdilaw ndi xa pure white tlga ...

Unknown said...

Goodmorning po ask q lng po sna qng my ibg sabhin b ung kulay ng sperm ng lalaki ... kse po sakn mdyo mdilaw ndi xa pure white tlga ...

Unknown said...

bkt po ganun mrme po nagssbe na buntis po ako kc nagsusuka po ako araw2 po at bkt po ganun itong june 1 at 2 po niregla po ko mlakas po pagdting ng june 3 at 4 po mahina po at kulay brown po sbe nla spot nlang dw po un pero bkt gnun po nag pt po bkt negative pero ara2 po ko nagsusuka at lumalake dw po baywang ko buntis po ba ko

 
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