Monday, April 13, 2009

Preparing for Sex, Ensuring Orgasm and Getting Wife Pregnant

Medical Care:
Anong Paraan parang mabuntis agad ang asawa?

Question: Jake, (South Korea) April 10, 2009

Gud day po, doc ask ko lng sana sa anong paraan po madaling mabuntis ang asawa ko? Kc pauwi na ako nxt month at gusto ko mabuntis ang asawa ko bago ako babalik, at paano gagawin ang lalaki? On the other hand, ask ko lng po sana kc may problema ako sa sex naming mag asawa, ganito po yun doc, sa tuwing magsex kami lagi siyang nabibitin at kc lagi akong mauuna sa kanya nasa kalagitnaan pa sya at ako tapos na, kaya lagi syang magagalit sa akin. Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin para magkasabay kami at hindi na sya mabibitin? Advice lng po sana doc,,tnx po. GODBLESS....



Dear Jake,

There are several steps that you can take to maximize your chances of pregnancy, pero dapat makasigurado kayong dalawa na healthy kayo. Magpa check up na kayo ngayon para ready na kayo pag-uwi mo in one month's time. Ang mga sumusunod ay mga "pointers" na maaari ninyong sundin:

1. Eat healthy foods and get adequate amounts of zinc (from lean meat, eggs, seafood, whole grains), calcium (from milk and green leafy vegetables), and vitamin D (from sunlight).

2. Avoid alcohol and nicotine, and limit the intake of caffeine.

3. Identify your fertile period. You can use the "Ovulation calculator", available online, or commercially available ovulation kits. Sexual intercourse should occur everyday or every other day during the fertile period. Some studies show that the missionary position is still most likely to lead to pregnancy, and ensuring your wife's orgasm further increases the chances, since the contractions may carry sperm further into the cervix. Avoid using lubricants or jellies, as these may damage or kill sperm.

4. Prenatal vitamins may be recommended by your wife's obstetrician even before conception. Folic acid supplements once daily may be helpful.

5. Relax, enjoy the sex with your Mrs. and don't stress yourselves out. Pregnancy may not happen immediately, and the stress builds up, especially if you set a deadline for yourselves.

As for the second part of your question. Yung lagi kang nauuna sa Mrs. mo, ito ba ay dahil sa hindi mo nasu sustain ang iyong erection? Kung wala ka namang problemang magsustain ng erection mo, try to take Zoloft , 50 mg once a day at bedtime for 1 week and see how that works.

Thank you for your question,
Priscilla Sanchez, M.D.
Medical Coordinator

Editor's Note: Jake, you may want to lengthen the foreplay before intercourse. A woman can climax several times, while a man only once or twice. So, enjoy being with your wife again, and exploring each other. Give her all the time and attention and bring her to her full enjoyment at least once, before you enter and help her and yourself to climax again together. Good luck!
Have an enjoyable home leave next month!


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Ricky Bulls said...
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Ricky Bulls said...

Good Day po, may tanong lang po ako. pag maaga bang nagmamasturbate(jajakol) ang lalake hirap na siyang mag ka-anak or baog na siya.

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